TESTIMONIALS

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"3 months ago, I had reached a point of no return in my life. I experienced what was most likely the very final straw in terms of the trauma I could handle. I have had a life full of trauma including: sexual abuse, rape, being mugged, 3x armed robberies, abusive marriages. 

 

My husband tried to commit suicide in front of me and I had to save him. In this moment, I was totally thrown off the edge, my entire body could not cope with the trauma of this. I stopped eating, I was vomiting all the time, shaking, and could hardly breathe. I was stuck in my thoughts, my PTSD spiked and all kinds of old traumas came rushing in like a massive tornado in my mind. I was at a point where I could not function, I was having panic attacks 6 -10 times a day. I was borderline booking into a mental institution or just making the choice to end it all. 

 

I walked into Paul’s office 3 months ago, I was shaking so badly, crying constantly, I could barely get my words out, I was dizzy, nauseous. Paul sat me down, we spoke, and he gave me a gift that has changed my life, and I believe it is for good! After this meeting, I started realizing I was in yet another abusive relationship, I started noticing my husband has a real intense voyeuristic disorder and is extremely abusive. I realized I was not delusional, I was literally in this and I needed to get out! With a life full of trauma when someone constantly tells you that you are delusional, you kind of believe them. I had no idea what was real and what wasn’t. Paul helped me to see reality and bring clarity to my mind. 

 

Over the past 3 months I have taken the necessary steps to leave the relationship, and build a better life for myself, the one I have always wanted to live. During this time, my health completely deteriorated due to the level of trauma I experienced. Due to not being able to eat well, I lost 22 kgs in 3 months, got into a position of malnutrition and developed a stomach ulcer. When the flu hit me, I realized just exactly what my body has been through in all of this. While thinking of this, it suddenly dawned on me, just how far I have come in the past 3 months. While I feel so much stronger mentally and emotionally, I see how weak, how fragile my body is, which is not at all surprising. It got me thinking of the level of trauma I had just been through, and I wonder how on earth I have made it this far in 3 months. I am so grateful to Paul for his help, I honestly don’t think I would have made it out alive without it! 

 

All my life I have battled with insecurities, anxiety, victim or blame mentality, low self esteem, allowing people to overstep my boundaries and treat me badly. I have always sought to have my love tank filled by others. I recognise this and with Paul’s tools, I am making drastic changes that will change my life forever! 

 

Through many conversations Paul has helped me to change my way of thinking, to make better choices that show love to myself. He has helped me to see things differently, to see life and the world differently. Paul is gentle, kind, but also slightly “in your face” when he feels he needs to be. When Paul takes you into his hands to help you change your perspective and love yourself, he means business, he gives his absolute all to helping you have the tools you need to turn your life around. 
 

I am in alignment with the path to building my new life, and to rediscovering Dee, the one who is completely unapologetically herself. Things are working out perfectly and although I still have a long road to recovery and to fixing my inner child, I am so grateful to be on the journey! These past few months with Paul have turned my life around completely. I would highly recommend Paul as life coach to anyone I meet along life’s path!"  - Dee

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"In January 2022 I met Paul while playing bowls. Paul had an immediate impact on my life by the way he spoke to me.

I am a Heroin addict with over 12 years clean time. I have struggled with so many personal issues that life had become meaningless and I was barely existing and not living.

I was blaming my past, my parents and everything and everybody else for my many woes. I was on a constant pity party believing that life was very unfair.

Paul gave me the tools to help me step out of blame consciousness and see my life from a whole new perspective. He helped me realize that I was just a prisoner of my childhood and that I had the power and tools to change this. If I was to write all the ways Paul has helped me, this review would become a small book. While Paul is gentle and kind in his approach to helping people, he also doesn't hold back from being brutally honest when necessary.

In 2021 my wife left me suddenly. It broke me! I have never told anyone this, but I came to Hogsback to give up! But instead of giving up I met Paul King. Without a doubt, Paul's guidance helped me save myself in so many different ways. Instead of giving up I have had the most awakening experience I could ever have dreamed of. Words can't begin to describe how grateful I am to Paul for all he has helped me with, and for helping me guide my life onto a completely new trajectory. For the first time in decades I awake each day with hope for a brighter future.
 

I highly recommend contacting Paul if you would like to have your soul awoken and have the chance to set off on the road to living your best life.
 

Thank you Paul!" - River Baleta

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"I met Paul in Hogsback in April 2022. I was battling substance-use addiction, depression, and anxiety. I had been to a psychiatric hospital four times for 2 to 3 week treatment in a 3-year period. Just before meeting Paul, I had tried to overdose on tranquillizers and did not want to be alive any more. Paul's help and spiritual guidance saved my life. I managed to stop using all mood stabilizers, tranquillizers, sleeping tablets, and illicit drugs. I never thought I'd be able to sleep without a pill after suffering with insomnia for a decade. I've been to many psychologists from a young age due to childhood trauma and it felt like I was just going in circles with very little progress. Just a few sessions with Paul and I have gained more from his advice and guidance than any psychologist ever gave me. For the first time in 10 years I can say that I am a happy person! Thank you Paul for helping me to change my life around and see life through a completely different lens." - G

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"With Paul's profound insights and deep love, I've been given wind at my back for my pilgrim journey into inner healing and freedom." - Helen, Hogsback, South Africa

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"Just one session with Paul put a stop to decades of horrific nightmares rooted in unresolved childhood trauma. He has helped me more than any psychologist." - Steph, Christchurch, New Zealand.